You may think when I say ‘shopping’ that when I reach the shop, I get a cart (trolley) and stroll down the aisles, choosing my groceries. Not so. Instead, the shop has a counter where customers mingle in a disorderly mass (no lines/queues here!). All the goods are displayed on shelves behind the counter, and usually the shop owner is at the register (till) and several assistants are waiting on the customers. I stand at the counter and tell them what I want, item by item, and the assistant collects each item and puts it in a pile. I will admit it is a bit difficult for me to see all my choices because of my eyesight! If there is anything I need that I am unsure whether or not they have it, I always ask them and they tell me yes or no, and if they don’t have it, they are always happy to send me to a different shop that might have it. When I am finished ordering, the assistant announces the price for each item to the owner, who punches the numbers into his calculator and then tells me my total while the assistant bags my groceries. If I am buying anything bulky or heavy, he will carry it to the vehicle for me. The shop owners are always very kind and always ask me how the baby is doing (Elijah always does the shopping with me).
There is only one shop in Petauke which has aisles. That is the new ‘supermarket’ which is totally different from the Indian shops. They do have aisles (four, to be exact), and they also have one push-trolley with a basket on top. What I find amusing about this particular shop is that I always have someone in attendance when I go there (unless David is with me). They hover behind me and insist on pushing the trolley, carrying my groceries, and bagging them for me at the till. I haven’t been able to figure out yet whether this is special treatment because I am ‘mzungu’ or whether it is typical for most of their customers. This is the only shop where I have been able to find real butter and 100% fruit juice, and sometimes cheese, but I don’t usually buy much else there.
The one major problem with shopping in Petauke is the drunk men, who like to loiter outside the shops and can sometimes be very obnoxious. They really like to harass us mzungu women. In the market sometimes people will come up and try to grab Elijah out of my arms - simply because they want to hold the mzungu baby. But if they frighten him and he starts to cry, they will just laugh. It's a hard life being a celebrity. :)
In the market this week I bought a pumpkin! Pumpkins are now coming into season. I can’t base my shopping on a pre-planned menu because everything I buy is dependent upon what is available in the market. I cannot assume that there will be garlic, green beans, or bananas available every week, for instance. So it is difficult to plan ahead. If possible, I usually go to the boma (town) to shop once a week, and occasionally if I have the opportunity to go twice then I will usually stock up again on fresh vegetables which don’t last long. I am gradually building up relationships with the women who sell in the market, and because I am a regular customer they often give me 'basela' (extra).